We understand that starting in a new setting can be worrying for both caregivers and for children.
Here are some tips to help it go a little smoother.
Before They Start
- Talk positively about nursery and what they can expect.
- Read books about starting school.
- Visit the setting beforehand if possible.
- Practice short separations with trusted family members or caregivers.
- Establish a consistent morning routine.
When Dropping Off
- Keep goodbyes short, calm, and predictable.
- Create a simple goodbye ritual (a hug, high-five, special phrase, etc.).
- Reassure your child that you will return and be specific (“I’ll pick you up after lunch”).
- Avoid sneaking away, as this can increase anxiety and reduce trust.
During the First Few Weeks
- Expect some tears—they are a normal part of adjustment for many children.
- Be consistent with attendance when possible.
- Ask teachers how your child settles after you leave; many children calm down quickly.
- Celebrate small successes, such as staying for the whole session or making a new friend.
For Parents
- Stay confident and positive, even if you feel emotional.
- Trust the preschool staff’s experience with helping children settle in.
- Avoid lengthy negotiations at the classroom door.
Pro Tip!
- Send a familiar item such as a small soft toy, or comfort blanket. – Label all belongings clearly!
